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LOOKING FOR A WOMAN TO KEEP WARM WITH THIS WINTER?

Beware The 7 Things Women Are Really Looking For In A Man 

DATELINE:  HINGHAM, MA, ISSUED OCTOBER 15, 2001… 

Never going to find her? There isn’t a woman out there to be with. If you’re saying that then more then likely the wrong approach is being taken. Women are looking for the same thing as men, someone to be with and share themselves with. So how do you know what women really want? 

1. Women are looking to have fun. Believe it or not most people living in Boston have probably never been on a tour of the city or to a lot of the historical landmarks. “Do something that you normally wouldn’t do,” advises Paul Falzone, CEO for The Right One and Together Dating service. “Maybe a walk in downtown Boston, go to a museum.” 

2. Stay away from sporting events and typical guy stuff. “She probably had her fill of football growing up with brothers, or watching the games with dad,” said Falzone. “You can do something athletic but keep it easy. Maybe a sailing lesson, or hit some golf balls if she likes to play.” Do something fun and be adventurous, but no need to finish the date in the emergency room somewhere. 

3. Have a sense of humor does not mean making her think you deserve your own half hour show on Thursday nights. “When a man can make a woman laugh it shows her that he’s comfortable and confident with her, and also fun to be with,” Falzone commented. Nothing makes a date better then some laughing, and don’t be afraid to have some fun at you won expense. Be yourself. If you’re a go out and laugh type person then do it. You don’t have to go straight to the comedy club there are other options. “Maybe a karaoke bar for a drink, a sing-a-long and a few laughs” Falzone suggested. “Show her that you don’t take yourself too seriously, and if you’re the next Andrea Bocelli, even better.” 

5. Let her feel comfortable. “Opening a door is nice, and so is paying the bill, but don’t make her think it’s Paris in the 1800’s,” said Falzone. Be polite and courteous, but killing her with kindness will kill the chances of a second date as well. 

6. Act natural and be yourself, because that’s who you will be the rest of the relationship. If you’re an avid reader of Hemingway it’s okay. But don’t tell her you’ve read everything he’s written and then not know about The Old Man and The Sea. “Be honest and natural,” suggests Falzone. “If you are looking for a relationship honesty is the best policy. The truth will come out sooner or later, so be honest from the get-go.”

Be reliable. If reliability is the most important thing to her, then she probably already owns a cat. You don’t need to be like Dino on the Flintstones, but you can’t be like your first car in high school. “If you say 8:00, then be there on-time,” says Falzone. “Nothing can be more frustrating then being late. If you’re late on your first date, you’ll always be late, and it sets a bad tone.” 

7. Finish the date right. Dropping her at the subway station is not the way to do it. “Offer her a ride home, or go with her if she goes home in a cab or train if she didn’t drive,” suggests Falzone. “Be courteous and make sure her method of getting home is safe. It will finish the night on a good note and surely help your chances of landing another date.” 

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Unlike other services, The Right One does not engage in any high-pressure sales tactics while striving to provide a comfortable atmosphere for all clients.  Personality profiles are also required to ensure compatible matches. 

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